← Journal
Reply rate
Messages & openers
First messages, follow-ups and the small edits that lift your reply rate.
Reply rate9 min read
Best Dating App Openers That Get Replies
The best opener is not a line you memorise. It is a formula: notice one specific thing, react to it honestly, and ask something easy to answer.
Read
Reply rate6 min read
The Best First Messages on Bumble
On Bumble the person who matched has a day to open the conversation, and 'hey' burns that window. The openers that work all do the same thing: they prove you read the profile and they make replying easy.
Read
Write better6 min read
How to Write a Dating Profile That Actually Gets Replies
Most profiles fail in the first two seconds because they describe a personality instead of showing one. Here's a clearer way to write yours.
Read
Reply rate8 min read
The Modern Dating Slang Dictionary
Dating slang sounds like a joke until it happens to you and you cannot name it. Here are the terms worth knowing, what each actually describes, and the useful response to each one.
Read